Resilience is “the act of springing back or rebounding” after a significant loss or setback.1
“Resilience is the human heart’s ability to suffer greatly and grow from it.” ~GotQuestions
As Christians, we encounter significant setbacks but have the God-given capacity for resilience. We are tenacious, flexible, and adaptable instead of helpless, rigid, and impotent.
Our resilience allows us to view challenges as opportunities for personal growth.
Resilience: Surviving and Thriving
Our hope must be rooted and grounded in Jesus Christ to overcome a great loss or significant setback.
“Everyone who comes to Me, and hears My words, and does them, I will show you who he is like. He is like a man building a house, who dug and went deep, and laid a foundation on the rock. When a flood arose, the stream broke against that house, and could not shake it, because it was founded on the rock.”
“But he who hears, and doesn’t do, is like a man who built a house on the earth without a foundation, against which the stream broke, and immediately it fell, and the ruin of that house was great.” ~Luke 6:47-49 WEB
No foundation other than Christ can sustain us. And we thrive by cultivating trust and peace.
“The steadfast of mind You will keep in perfect peace, because he trusts in You. Trust in the Lord forever, for in God the Lord, we have an everlasting Rock.” ~Isaiah 26:3-4 NASB
How to Cultivate Resilience
We cultivate resilience by building our spirit, soul, and body to sustain us through difficult times. We want to bolster our endurance so that regardless of our perplexing circumstances, we develop a long-view perspective that keeps our hope in God. Our hope in God’s faithfulness to work all things together for our good keeps us from being devastated by unfavorable events.
#1 – Cultivate Resilience in Your Spirit
We cultivate resilience in our spirit as we abide in God’s Word, commune with Him in prayer, and worship Him. We strengthen ourselves in the Lord by focusing on His character, nature, and ways.
Abide in God’s Word
As we abide [continue, remain] in God’s Word, we discover God’s character – He is Faithful and True; we learn His nature – He never leaves or forsakes us; we understand His ways – He is near to the brokenhearted, those crushed in spirit, and the humble.
“Draw near to God, and He will draw near to you.” ~James 4:8a WEB
“Behold, I am with you always, even to the end of the age.” ~Matthew 28:20b WEB
“The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” ~Psalm 34:18 NASB
Commune with God in Prayer
Prayer is spiritual communication between man and God. As in any healthy relationship, communication is two-way. To pray is to talk to God and to listen to Him.
“The Lord is near. Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your request be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all comprehension, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” ~Philippians 4:5b-7 NASB
“For I know the plans I have for you,’ declares the Lord, ‘plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Then you will call on Me and come and pray to Me, and I will listen to you. You will seek Me and find Me when you seek Me with all your heart.” ~Jeremiah 29:11-13 NIV
Worship and Praise God
Worship and praise come from a grateful heart. We delight God’s heart when we delight in Him.
“Enter His gates with a song of thanksgiving and His courts with praise. Be thankful to Him, bless and praise His name. For the Lord is good; His mercy and lovingkindness are everlasting, His faithfulness [endures] to all generations.” ~Psalm 100:4-5 AMP
“The Lord delights in those who fear Him, who put their hope in His unfailing love.” ~Psalm 147:11 NIV
#2 – Cultivate Resilience in Your Soul
We cultivate resilience in our souls when we renew our minds, embrace difficulties as opportunities for growth, and remain hopeful as we release the past and look forward to the future.
Renew Our Minds
“Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is of good repute, if there is any excellence and if anything worthy of praise, think about these things.” ~Philippians 4:8 NASB
True – Thinking about what is true means focusing on what is genuine and authentic, not fake, false, unreliable, or counterfeit.
Honorable – to be honorable implies being respected or highly esteemed.
Right – right intentions combined with right actions indicate lawfulness and justice with character.
Pure – pure suggests guiltless, innocent, genuine, clean or incorrupt.
Lovely – possessing qualities which invite affection [painting of a lily]
Good Repute – good hints moral, virtuous, valid, and sufficient; repute signals one’s reputation, character, or established opinion.
Excellence – excellence insinuates a valuable quality, virtue, or dignity.
Worthy of Praise – praiseworthy necessitates one is deserving because of eminent worth or distinguishing qualities, while praise entails an expression of gratitude, applauding, commending, and even extolling the commendable one.2
By choosing to renew our minds, we build resilience in our souls. Just as weight lifting builds muscles in our body, developing our mind releases us from negative thought patterns into life-giving thoughts.
Embrace Difficulties as Opportunities for Growth
Resilience means getting through a difficulty and coming out with greater strength. We don’t just survive a difficulty; we thrive because of it! We go from a victim mentality to an overcomer mentality.
We learn from the past by observing things in our control. In the future, we can change our responses and attitudes to learn, grow, and benefit from the past. We choose to become healthier people for ourselves and those around us.
And we learn from the past by observing things outside of our control. In the future, we can change our relationships and boundaries. We can also forgive those who have harmed us in the past. We want to release offense, bitterness, and resentment to give, receive, and walk in love.
Remain Hopeful – Release and Embrace
Hope comes from God Himself. Receiving His love empowers us to learn to release the past and embrace the future.
“You will guard him and keep him in perfect and constant peace whose mind [both its inclination and its character] is stayed on You, because he commits himself to You, leans on You, and hopes confidently in You.” ~Isaiah 26:3 AMPC
By renewing our minds, embracing difficulties as opportunities for growth, releasing the past, and embracing the future, we surrender our fears and anxieties to Him and instead embrace God’s faithfulness to bring blessings out of our trials. The blessings (character growth, patience, etc.) bring an overcoming mindset. We become stronger internally and foster healthier relationships as a result.
#3 – Cultivate Resilience in Your Body
We cultivate resilience in our bodies by establishing daily routines for our physical well-being.
- Eat healthy
- Plenty of rest and have bedtime routines
- Include physical activity
- Relax and manage stress3
As Christians, we encounter difficulties but have the God-given capacity for resilience. May we cultivate resilience in our spirits, souls, and bodies so that we not only survive but thrive as overcomers as we renew our minds, embrace difficulties as opportunities for growth, release the past, and embrace our future.
As we develop a long-view perspective that trusts in God’s faithfulness to work all things together for our good, we stand firm in hope, strong in faith, and dwell in His peace. Let us cultivate resilience and an overcomer mentality with God’s grace and in His love.
Recommendations
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If you need resources for growing in love, forgiveness and humility Book Reviews on Love, Forgiveness, and Humility – Strength with Dignity
References
1 Webster’s 18128 Dictionary. Retrieved August 28, 2024, from Websters Dictionary 1828 – Webster’s Dictionary 1828 – Resilience
2Blair, Lisa. 8 Amazing Things to Think about Now from the Bible. Published June 10, 2022. Retrieved August 28, 2024, from 8 Amazing Things to Think about Now from the Bible – Strength with Dignity
3Resilience: Build Skills to Endure Hardship. Published by Mayo Clinic Staff on December 23, 2023. Retrieved August 28, 2024, from Resilience: Build skills to endure hardship – Mayo Clinic
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20 thoughts on “Resilience from a Christian Perspective”
God has been so good to walk with us through the hard times, to stretch our faith and resilience, to pull us closer to Himself. I’m so grateful …
I agree, Linda, I’m thankful for His goodness and His faithfulness to us.
Lisa, I enjoyed this teaching wishing I had learned long ago. I confess I have not always been resilient & looking to God for learning and stretching of my heart and faith.
Blessings
He is always revealing more of Himself to us, Peggy. Yes, stretching, learning, and growing in faith. A life of faith.
Lisa,
Even secular science proves that faith in the Lord leads to resilience. I appreciated this wonderful, hope-filled article.
Blessings,
Tammy
It’s amazing that faith expressed in prayer even shows up under a microscope, Tammy! Faith makes a huge difference in our ability to be resilient.
As I read your teaching from God’s word, I was reminded that it is a choice to renew, embrace, and be hopeful in all circumstances. Choosing to trust God, we grow richer in all things God!
It is amazing how much our will affects our choices, Lynn. Choosing to trust Him infuses us with hope in the midst of life’s challenges.
Developing that longer-term perspective is so key for me to cultivate resilience. It’s easy to get too caught up in the moment, but it helps to remember that this “light momentary affliction” will also pass. Another thorough post as always! 🙂
Having a long-term perspective definitely helps us cultivate a gentle spirit in the here and now, Lisa.
This is a very helpful post, as believers who are struggling, it is good to know we can bounce back.
So true, Rebecca! It brings hope to know that He gives us the grace to “bounce back” from hardship.
When I was studying the Sermon on the Mount earlier this year, it dawned on me that so much of what Jesus was teaching was simply a way to get through this life without giving in to the pressure of this world. I find it so much easier to bend without breaking, to assume the best of others and respond in kindness when I’m not the biggest thing in my universe.
So true, Michele! When we are not on the throne, we have grace to love, serve, and prefer others!
Those are exceptional insights, and I love how you have applied scripture to each layer. Blessing as you continue to pass along hope and resilience.
I appreciate your encouragement and blessing, John. May the Lord bless you!
You know Lisa, I really needed to hear this today. Your tips for cultivating resilience from a Christian perspective are so helpful. As I read I discovered that I am already implementing some of these in my day to day.
Thank you so much for sharing with Sweet Tea & Friend’s September link up. I’m so happy you’re here.
xo
Cultivating resilience helps us encourage ourselves in the Lord, Paula.
I so needed to read this post and your insights, Lisa. The quote at the beginning is one I have now written down in my Bible. We cultivate resilience over the course of time. Layer upon layer and you have shared this beautifully. Thank you!
So true, Joanne, we cultivate resilience as we sow into our spirits, souls, and bodies over time.